Can My Wife Love Me Again, or is it Over Forever?

So many men are faced with the question 'Can my wife love me again?' every day. While no one can MAKE anyone do what they don't want to do, it is very possible that your wife can love you again.

Has your wife come right out and told you that she doesn't love you? If not, then your feeling of being unloved may not have anything to do with love at all.

She may have other things going on in her mind, and she may not even realize that she is neglecting you. Everyday stress does a lot to people.

If your wife HAS told you that she doesn't love you anymore, there are still ways to win her heart back.

Can you remember when your marriage started having trouble? When things just didn't feel right - not like they used to? A lot of marriages fall apart for this reason. The couple knows something just isn't right, but they let it go until it ends in disaster. You do NOT have to let that happen!

Ask her what she wants or needs right now. She may just need a little 'away' time, to get her thoughts in order. Everyone has a time in their life when they think their world is falling apart. Some call it midlife crisis, others just call it a fact of life.

You love her very much. Just because she doesn't act like she loves you, or may have even told you she doesn't love you anymore, doesn't mean the end of your marriage. The two of you got married because you love each other. Love that strong just doesn't disappear. It changes over time, from an 'in love' feeling to a much deeper love. One that is not often shown on the outside, but the kind of love that lasts forever. This kind of love, however, may have one spouse thinking that the other doesn't love them anymore.

There are so many things that could be happening in her mind, that she just isn't telling you. She could be depressed. When a person is depressed, they build a wall around themselves, blocking everyone out. Unfortunately, this would include you.

If you can, talk to her about it. She may not see that she is hurting you. Let her know that you are there for her, and that you love her and don't like to see her like this.

Don't try to make her show love for you - doing that will only push her further away from you, and may lead to resentment. If that happens, you WILL lose her. Imagine you were in her shoes. If you were going through some hard issues, what would you want her to do?

 

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